i find it funny how women are simultaneously encouraged by society to look sexy for men but when they do they’re criticised for it
or how the idea that perhaps you want to just look sexy for yourself or for any other reason that doesn’t include men is completely preposterous
male narcissism, gross
Ya know what else? Sometimes women wear certain clothes to get the attention of ONE particular person and/or to look hot for them, but the narcissism of random men turns it into “she wouldn’t dress like that unless she wants *me* to look.” No, dude, it’s not about you.
Real-life Grave of the Fireflies: (Photo) Stoic Japanese orphan, standing at attention having brought his dead younger brother to a cremation pyre, Nagasaki, by Joe O’Donnell 1945
This photograph was taken by an American photojournalist, Joe O’Donnell, in Nagasaki in 1945.
He recently spoke to a Japanese interviewer about this picture:
“I saw a boy about ten years old walking by. He was carrying a baby on his back. In those days in Japan, we often saw children playing with their little brothers or sisters on their backs, but this boy was clearly different. I could see that he had come to this place for a serious reason. He was wearing no shoes. His face was hard. The little head was tipped back as if the baby were fast asleep.
“The boy stood there for five or ten minutes. The men in white masks walked over to him and quietly began to take off the rope that was holding the baby. That is when I saw that the baby was already dead. The men held the body by the hands and feet and placed it on the fire.
“The boy stood there straight without moving, watching the flames. He was biting his lower lip so hard that it shone with blood. The flame burned low like the sun going down. The boy turned around and walked silently away.